Our campus has this "Sex-it-up" party this Thursday. It's about sex education and sex awareness, as well as booze, condoms, boobs and sex.
Personally, I think it's all wrong. And hence I'm NOT going. Harsh and I were wondering around the student lounge, trying to make sense of everything. The whole campus is talking about this Sex Party. They have banners with sleazy messages and drawings and balloons of boobs and penises all around the campus today as part of the sex-it-up week. Hmm.. quite distracting actually. Guess what, they even offer penis shaped cookies as free food.
I'm like what the.....
The lecturers are silently rolling their eyes and knocking their heads at the sight of this!!
Haha.. I dare Malaysia's universities to have an event like this. LOL. Obviously, not happening!!
The reason I'm NOT going:
(1) My parents. They would die to think I'm at a sex party with half naked people.
(2) My religion. I'm a Christian and I don't support these activities that talk widely about sex, especially promoting sex before marriage.
(3) I have friends that are very much thinking straight like me and not going as well. Thank God for them. I certainly chose the right people to hang around.
(4) 15 bucks per ticket. Puhh.. NOT GOING!! 15 bucks could keep me alive for a month maybe?
(5) I'm not a party person. I'll just go there and end up being a party pooper, sitting at a corner, whinging myself to why I came at the first place.
(6) I dunno what to wear. I have to wear something sexy if I was to go. Again, it's entirely not me to be sexy.
(7) Coz I'm Asian. I highly doubt if they r going to be many Asians in this party.
(8) I don't drink.
The organisers said the party is entirely for sex education. Puhlezz.. I would laugh if no one at my age or older for that matter have no clue about sex. I mean seriously, sex education? And I think the party is wholly to promote sex before marriage. Why would there even be talking about protection or condoms or contraceptive pills if not encouraging teenagers and young adults to have sex now?? I mean it's just so wrong for them to send the wrong message to others, telling them that losing ur virginity, having casual sex is right.
I remember my youth pastor once telling us that turning 18 is a trap and an invitation to temptation. And oh boy.. he cannot be any right about that. 18 is the legal age for basically everything. Drinking, driving, having sex, pornos, drugs, going to clubs, and strip clubs. Basically, making a fool out of urself.
So hence I'm not going. Stay true to my religion. Stay true girl... I learn from Sonia, hi Son!! That before u do anything, ask urself this question, "Is this what God would want u to do??", "Will God be happy with ur actions?" Somehow, I feel glad that I am a Christian and God has set a list of boundaries for me, which allows me to control myself from Satan's temptation.
Different people have different beliefs and attitudes towards sex. They can choose what they want to do. And I choose to stay away from sex. I would have to live with the guilt if I broke the simplest rule in God's book.
Man.. this is a long post. I shall end here. U guys must be sick of me talking about my religion. So, till next time. Tada~
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Sex party. Do or dont?
Posted by Ms.Salty at 11:05 PM
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2 comments:
Hey Sally. Been reading your blog as always but was never 'hardworking' enough to comment. Lol. Sorry. And hi!
I think the very existence of a sex party itself is ridiculous. How is it 'sex education' when you encourage people to have free sex? To be honest the big irony (for me) in most secular sex education programs is the phrase 'safe sex' itself. Yea yea, put on a condom, etc etc. But then they don't entirely discourage you from participating in free sex. How do you guarantee that all 15 guys you slept with will wear his condom properly? The risk gets bigger with every one more guy you sleep with.
Want to avoid unwanted pregnancy, STDs, HIV/AIDS? One word: Abstinence.
Glad you chose not to go, Sally. You go girl! :)
Exactly. I thought u dont read my blog anymore. LOL. But yeh! I think "safe sex" is abit too much and at times it might not be as "safe" as u think. It's just something to fool u.
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